5 interesting and thoughtful observations from marriages I have witnessed

I know, I know…..Marriage is the most popular and doubtlessly most written topic but you know what?

Everyone, every time, every where finds it interesting, even if they are reading same post about marriage :-)….May be, they find something new every time, they read it.

With the same hope of the well-received post, when too many observations were dancing in mind, I decided to pen them down. Over to you poor (Oops, I meant dear) readers. Sorry can’t help 🙂

1. The FEMALE of the relationship is always right. Now you need to decide, who is the female in the relationship.
I have seen a guy wearing flower in hair, while accompanying his GF 🙂

2. The ANNOYER always maintains the same designation. The one who gets annoyed will never get chance to annoy the other one. Its like first come first.
I have observed one deep breathing while being annoyed by the other, publicly 🙂

3. With time, DRIVER in the relationship changes. So, never be happy, if you started first.
I have heard husbands driving kitchen and wives driving in bed, after 10 years of marriage 🙂

4. CHANGE of interest and increase in waist circumference (for one only) are the consistent factors of any marriage life.
I have seen couples look like mother-son or father-daughter, after few years of marriage. Interest in cricket changes to exhibition visits 🙂

5. SEPARATION is the permanent fear, one can offer to other, in relationship. Its like if you can fake to be brave, you are in.
I have seen husband getting out of drunk state, in a second, when they see the flashing screen on phone shows name of wife. Afterall, its a question of marriage life yaar 🙂

And the weekend begins while …

  • Listening: To the melody queen, Lata Mangeshkar….Jaane dil mein kab se hai tu
  • Watching: Charcoal black roads leading to the beautiful destination
  • Hoping: To walk using skates soon…after all, world will be on roll 🙂
  • Marveling: At the beautiful sunrise, which lights up everything on earth, including me
  • Needing: A lifelong vacation…..wait, I think that’s everyone’s need 🙂
  • Questioning: Masks…Yup, asking those masked faces why do they live?
  • Smelling: Delicious Maggie at roadside dhaba with aromatic coffee
  • Wearing: Universal fav red and blue combination
  • Celebrating: Um… those few hours of wait, before the vacation starts
  • Knowing: Vacations are beautiful and mind blowing and awesome and informative….only if taken alone 🙂
  • Trouble-shooting: Mr.  Husband :-)…I hope he is not reading this…
  • Thinking: About how love can change everything about and around life
  • Admiring: Being human, the best blessing any living creature could have
  • Feeling: Happily miserable
  • Dreaming: To be on beach, for lifetime
  • Pretending: I rule the world :-)…..of course, attitude matters

 

Dried up…

Fully flowing river of emotions dried up

Just like dry winter after wet monsoon…

 

Red teary eyes dried up

Just like tired old lady exhausted of walking…

 

That forever Love dried up

Just like tree leaves fell in spring…

 

My words and dreams dried up

Just like night after day…

 

Meeting and missing ….living and dying

Between those phases, life dried up….

And I still smile like…..”I am okay” 🙂

Quick peek and click lick

Click, click, click….

The camera said tick…tick…tick

I was quick…quick…quick

And suddenly, my eyes did not blink…

Without wait I sneak

Could not stop to think

Looking at friend, I wink

As I see magic

Wanted to have a link

To capture that lick

Enough is not the word to drink

Hands were on camera to pick

Knowing what could be the risk

Confidence of mine shrink

I act on the fear to kick

And concentrate on lick

Am I becoming a freak?

Are they kink?

Not sure…. again I peek

And it’s still on…the magic

Would you wish to be alike?

The Rain reminds…

I look out of the window

And my heart started singing

My body is dancing on rhythm

Yes, rain is here…

With lots of memories

And lots of desires

Suddenly I feel like

The plant of dried soul got watered

Why you are here again? I ask

To remind you the love…..the first love

The first monsoon when you both dreamed together

But oh rain, he never came back, I cry

And rain hides my tears…..

I still remember you, my love

Every time when I see poured blessing of sky….

But I have learned to live now

A Book and a cup of tea in rain

Works like a best friend in loneliness

The romance in book excites me

And I remember how rain was used to be

Those paper boats and puddles

Those little feet had spring in it

Everything has changed..

I take deep breathe to consent the change

But the melody of rain prompts another one

That bindaas dance in rain

Without waiting for storm to settle

Those wish to go ahead

Without knowing rules of life

That wish to live it fully

Without knowing what being alone means

Those wish to fly in the sky

Another sip of coffee

And I still gaze at surrounding

Those mirrored roads bathed in rain

Reminds me, life is short

And I run fast, holding the keys…

Driving on those coal black roads

The fresh air and smell of wet sand

Unmatching honesty of Mother Nature

My heart is singing again

And I have worn a real smile….

 

(pictures : google.com)

Weekends, I look forward to….

Every day comes with a different feeling – Monday with blues, Tuesday with Ohhhs, Wednesday with middles, Thursday with waits and Friday with Finally :-)………… Yes, finally its Friday and weekend starts…After a tired and stressful week, Friday presents an incredible feeling of relaxation.

Here is a visual presentation of how my weekends are…remember, I am not LUCKY (because I am married, unfortunately happily), I am a mother (of one only, hoooh), I have limited friends (as I am not a “group”person), I love naps (because I am sleep deprived), and books and coffee are my first non-living love :-)….

 

A relaxed lonely weekend morning when I will not have to run around and can read my favorite book with coffee.

Little afternoon nap that energizes me for those best evenings of weekend.

Being a kid again with kids is something, my weekends are filled off.

Being in kitchen with hubby….yes, we cook together while gossiping, laughing, chopping, discussing and drinking coffee (ohh, too much coffee? Never mind, its weekend).

Friday night is a family Maggie and Movie night, we have been celebrating since long…wearing Pajama, laying down on couch, eating Maggie and watching Movie is an incomparable fun.

Meeting friends and chit-chatting on every possible subject is one of the best relaxation time for me.

Saturday night is all about a long drive on lonely roads at mid-night, while romantic numbers are played in background and kiddo is happily sleeping in back seat.

Cleaning is the last, most ignored but “have to” task for the weekend and people at home feels safe outside home, while I am on cleaning mission 🙂

Dinner date with family is a “must” follow rule and it’s the best time of weekend.

And after all fun, saddening Sunday evening, which reminds to get back to the routine again 🙁

So, that’s how Friday feelings are….. How about you? How do you spend weekends?

 

Pictures source : Google.com

 

 

5 quirks to defeat Monday Blues

Why Monday has to be there?

Monday comes up with so many schedules, “To-Do” lists  and above all, hangover from weekend.  Try to keep yourself in Friday mood, while tweaking your attitude and some activities 🙂

Book movie tickets for evening….Yes, do something on Monday, which you usually do on Friday and you will realize how the day and all the blues flies away, while daydreaming for the evening.

Look in the mirror and tell yourself “The new weekend is about to start”….

Wear funky outfits at work and carry teddy bear….Who said Monday means being formal?

Plan the next trip….Yup, you read it right. Planning next trip will make you forget that its Monday today and you are energized to go through the day.

Rather than asking co-workers “How was your weekend?….wish them “Happy next weekend.”