5 interesting and thoughtful observations from marriages I have witnessed

I know, I know…..Marriage is the most popular and doubtlessly most written topic but you know what?

Everyone, every time, every where finds it interesting, even if they are reading same post about marriage :-)….May be, they find something new every time, they read it.

With the same hope of the well-received post, when too many observations were dancing in mind, I decided to pen them down. Over to you poor (Oops, I meant dear) readers. Sorry can’t help 🙂

1. The FEMALE of the relationship is always right. Now you need to decide, who is the female in the relationship.
I have seen a guy wearing flower in hair, while accompanying his GF 🙂

2. The ANNOYER always maintains the same designation. The one who gets annoyed will never get chance to annoy the other one. Its like first come first.
I have observed one deep breathing while being annoyed by the other, publicly 🙂

3. With time, DRIVER in the relationship changes. So, never be happy, if you started first.
I have heard husbands driving kitchen and wives driving in bed, after 10 years of marriage 🙂

4. CHANGE of interest and increase in waist circumference (for one only) are the consistent factors of any marriage life.
I have seen couples look like mother-son or father-daughter, after few years of marriage. Interest in cricket changes to exhibition visits 🙂

5. SEPARATION is the permanent fear, one can offer to other, in relationship. Its like if you can fake to be brave, you are in.
I have seen husband getting out of drunk state, in a second, when they see the flashing screen on phone shows name of wife. Afterall, its a question of marriage life yaar 🙂

And the weekend begins while …

  • Listening: To the melody queen, Lata Mangeshkar….Jaane dil mein kab se hai tu
  • Watching: Charcoal black roads leading to the beautiful destination
  • Hoping: To walk using skates soon…after all, world will be on roll 🙂
  • Marveling: At the beautiful sunrise, which lights up everything on earth, including me
  • Needing: A lifelong vacation…..wait, I think that’s everyone’s need 🙂
  • Questioning: Masks…Yup, asking those masked faces why do they live?
  • Smelling: Delicious Maggie at roadside dhaba with aromatic coffee
  • Wearing: Universal fav red and blue combination
  • Celebrating: Um… those few hours of wait, before the vacation starts
  • Knowing: Vacations are beautiful and mind blowing and awesome and informative….only if taken alone 🙂
  • Trouble-shooting: Mr.  Husband :-)…I hope he is not reading this…
  • Thinking: About how love can change everything about and around life
  • Admiring: Being human, the best blessing any living creature could have
  • Feeling: Happily miserable
  • Dreaming: To be on beach, for lifetime
  • Pretending: I rule the world :-)…..of course, attitude matters

 

Rainy Wish

Those droplets of water

When started pouring

My wishes got wings

Eyes got uninvited dreams

And heart went on perpetual journey

How perfect it would have been

To be on beach at this time

To talk with you silently

To make castle of wet sand

To look at never ending water

To walk with you infinitely

And allowing rain to make us miserable

Suddenly, you remember

“we should have it, rightnow”

You say mischievously

I try to read your eyes

But fail to understand

You hold my hand and start walking

I get shiver in spine

Anticipation of next few moments

Excitement of being with you

And

Happiness of being in rain, finally

And you suddenly wake me up from my rain dream

“Here is your garam chai ki pyaali”, you say

And I still see same smile on your face

Not sure to smile on my daydream

Or to be angry with your stupidity,

I sip tea while looking at you,

Thinking what kind of coaching you need

I smile silently and wink at you….

My love, I finally utter

But before I could speak,

You jumped in….

Ï know you want second cup of tea

And I laughed….

My idiot, I want to dance with you in rain,

I speak silently with a wide smile

 

Weekends, I look forward to….

Every day comes with a different feeling – Monday with blues, Tuesday with Ohhhs, Wednesday with middles, Thursday with waits and Friday with Finally :-)………… Yes, finally its Friday and weekend starts…After a tired and stressful week, Friday presents an incredible feeling of relaxation.

Here is a visual presentation of how my weekends are…remember, I am not LUCKY (because I am married, unfortunately happily), I am a mother (of one only, hoooh), I have limited friends (as I am not a “group”person), I love naps (because I am sleep deprived), and books and coffee are my first non-living love :-)….

 

A relaxed lonely weekend morning when I will not have to run around and can read my favorite book with coffee.

Little afternoon nap that energizes me for those best evenings of weekend.

Being a kid again with kids is something, my weekends are filled off.

Being in kitchen with hubby….yes, we cook together while gossiping, laughing, chopping, discussing and drinking coffee (ohh, too much coffee? Never mind, its weekend).

Friday night is a family Maggie and Movie night, we have been celebrating since long…wearing Pajama, laying down on couch, eating Maggie and watching Movie is an incomparable fun.

Meeting friends and chit-chatting on every possible subject is one of the best relaxation time for me.

Saturday night is all about a long drive on lonely roads at mid-night, while romantic numbers are played in background and kiddo is happily sleeping in back seat.

Cleaning is the last, most ignored but “have to” task for the weekend and people at home feels safe outside home, while I am on cleaning mission 🙂

Dinner date with family is a “must” follow rule and it’s the best time of weekend.

And after all fun, saddening Sunday evening, which reminds to get back to the routine again 🙁

So, that’s how Friday feelings are….. How about you? How do you spend weekends?

 

Pictures source : Google.com

 

 

5 quirks to defeat Monday Blues

Why Monday has to be there?

Monday comes up with so many schedules, “To-Do” lists  and above all, hangover from weekend.  Try to keep yourself in Friday mood, while tweaking your attitude and some activities 🙂

Book movie tickets for evening….Yes, do something on Monday, which you usually do on Friday and you will realize how the day and all the blues flies away, while daydreaming for the evening.

Look in the mirror and tell yourself “The new weekend is about to start”….

Wear funky outfits at work and carry teddy bear….Who said Monday means being formal?

Plan the next trip….Yup, you read it right. Planning next trip will make you forget that its Monday today and you are energized to go through the day.

Rather than asking co-workers “How was your weekend?….wish them “Happy next weekend.”

Jab We Met : 7 incredible life lessons

Its been almost 10 years now but memories of that movie is still as fresh as it was yesterday. And as if it was planned, got a chance to watch that movie again, as a part of family movie night. I know, lots of articles have been written about this movie but could not resist the urge to contribute mine :-)….Happy reading…

 

Love does not know right or wrong

Take Risks, play hard, don’t blame others…

Love yourself and everyone else will

Life is all about little moments….Live it

People management is a skill

Burn and flush the past…Start new

Love is an extension of invisible friendship

The Real Happiness….

When I look at the endless salty ocean
I am happy that I have glass of drinking water

When I look at the unknown crowd
I am happy that I have you who is known

When I look at the sun and the moon
I am happy that I am alive for you

When I look at the old couple
I am happy that I will have you forever

When I look back to my younger self
I am happy that I grew mature to match you

And when I look forward…..
I am thankful that the tunnel is about to end
Sunshine is ready to brighten the life
And the real happiness is waiting for us….

Loving someone and being loved with same intensity by same person is the rarest melody

being sung by emotions, wishes, dreams, hopes, desires, trust, loyalty and passion, in chorus….

Lucky to have you!!

6 things being in love makes you understand …

They say, falling in love is something, no one can control….

well, Being in love and realizing the changes it presents is the best thing, as a result of uncontrolled fall  :-)…

Here are those realizations….

1. Every hardship to keep that feeling alive seems worth.

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2. Unknowingly that safe player in you has turned to risk taker.

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3. Journey matters much more than destination.

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4. What is the most important thing in life and how crazy you can get about it.

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5. The difference between casual and sensual touch and how it matters.

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6. Everything is possible, every dream is achievable.

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