The Real Happiness….

When I look at the endless salty ocean
I am happy that I have glass of drinking water

When I look at the unknown crowd
I am happy that I have you who is known

When I look at the sun and the moon
I am happy that I am alive for you

When I look at the old couple
I am happy that I will have you forever

When I look back to my younger self
I am happy that I grew mature to match you

And when I look forward…..
I am thankful that the tunnel is about to end
Sunshine is ready to brighten the life
And the real happiness is waiting for us….

Loving someone and being loved with same intensity by same person is the rarest melody

being sung by emotions, wishes, dreams, hopes, desires, trust, loyalty and passion, in chorus….

Lucky to have you!!

6 things being in love makes you understand …

They say, falling in love is something, no one can control….

well, Being in love and realizing the changes it presents is the best thing, as a result of uncontrolled fall  :-)…

Here are those realizations….

1. Every hardship to keep that feeling alive seems worth.

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2. Unknowingly that safe player in you has turned to risk taker.

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3. Journey matters much more than destination.

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4. What is the most important thing in life and how crazy you can get about it.

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5. The difference between casual and sensual touch and how it matters.

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6. Everything is possible, every dream is achievable.

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Tomorrow is an another day…

Just after this dark night

At the end of this never ending tunnel

After the toughest test of patience …

All those tears will disappear

All those setbacks will roll down

All those wounds will heal …

With a new ray of hope

With a new light of joy

With a new way of life …

A smile will spread again

A feeling will replicate again

A love will be lived again 🙂

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4 reasons we learn non-monogamy

Every other day, we hear about secret affairs/ extra marital relationships and someone being in multiple relationships at a time. While all of our response is big “haaaaaah”, understanding this changing behavior of society is interesting.

 

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Why anyone looks for option in relationship?

Why someone takes risk to live life fully, at a cost of existing “OK” life?

Why no value is effective when it comes to breaking societal rules?

  1. Unsatisfied emotional needs : A prime factor, leads any male/female to non-monogamy. Marriage or commitment does not guarantee emotional satisfaction. Sometimes, even after spending years together under common roof, a couple is not able to understand each other’s emotional needs and when one finds the compatible match, he/she definitely is tempted to go for it. It’s not that someone is desperately looking for option but when it happens, guilt is overruled by happiness of having someone like-minded.
  2. Secret pleasure : We humans, are risk takers. We love to do things which we are not supposed to do and that give us unusual joy and terrific confidence boost. That secret pleasure of texting/meeting/talking with someone secretively, gives a feeling of teenage, which everyone of us likes at any age 🙂
  3. Lack of variety in sexual life : A bitter truth of real-life, of marriage, of monogamy and of being into relationship. It might seem contradictory to all those love statements or all those love commitments but sex plays a major role in defining relationship between a male and a female. After being with same person for years, all those love makings feel like routine and humans do not like routine. We seek variety and there is nothing wrong in it.
  4. Phase of life and circumstances : Quite relevant to emotional dissatisfaction, this considers other factors like age, hurting in past, revenge feeling and many others. Of course, being in relationship, we all are expected to act maturity but it does not happen always.  Hurting from the partner, long term sickness, disinterest in sex, risk taking abilities, success and failures are major defining factors in getting into non-monogamy.

Conclusion?

Well, nothing can be concluded as something wrong for someone proves absolutely right for the other one. Therefore, this is just a matter of individual choices, maturity, understanding of societal pressure and above all, feeling of true love, for which everyone of us is always looking for.

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Miss you…..

That starry night and continuous talk

That sunrise and holding hand

That sunset and locking lips

That coffee and constant stares

That pillow fight and unstoppable laughter

That exchange of smile and no word

That long walk and matching steps

That white sand and lovely footprints

That splash of waves and that rescue

That lonely street and gamey eyes

That public place and those whispers

That tipsiness and the fun around

That boat ride and webbed lovers

Did I miss anything?

Yes, I missed YOU

Every moment….

While dreaming this

While penning this

While re-living this

Come over……before its too late

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Password of my …

The secret key, as they say

To access something special

Something nearer to my heart

Something I will never let go

Something I want to rejoice forever

And that is why I had encrypted it

With password, no one can assume…

But would like to reveal it today

To you…the special person in my life

All those joys, all those memories,

All those laughter and all those tears,

I have stored for years in my heart

Password to access them is YOU

Yes, it’s you my love

Who can access any corner of my heart…

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7 things LOVE is about …when its LDR

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Long Distance Relationships…..as they say…

Difficult to live up

Hard to work out

Easy to end up

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Illogical to be part of

But again, as they say….

Love is not about distance, It’s about how much the person means to you

Love is not about being together, It’s about creating memories together

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Loving someone who is at the other corner of world and what that feeling means…..a brief summary here (I know a book can be written :-)). Being in LDR, love means,

  1. Having fun in each other’s virtual company : You both are away from each other but together virtually. For every moment, you feel the other person around, whether its cafeteria or kitchen or meeting room…..and thinking about what you both would have done at the very moment, if together, makes your face blush and radiant at the same time. Yes, Love is all about FUN in the company of each other.

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  1. Missing but smiling : Yes, you read it right. Missing that someone special brings back so many beautiful memories to you and makes you smiling rather than being sad. That is the power of LOVE.

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  1. Finding new techniques and technologies to communicate : Yes, for most part of life you are away from each other but you are constantly in touch, sharing thoughts, laughs and feelings. While most couples love to stick to single media of communication, trying different apps to chat and talk and play games and sharing interests helps in adding playfulness to the relationship.

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  1. Dreaming and anticipating next meet : The next date of meeting is the only thing that makes distance survivable. Planning and anticipating minute details about the special day and re-planning and re-imagining and re-planning is the continuous loop until the actual meet happens. When the reality of being away for most part of life is bitter than being next to each other for sometime, building castles in air helps :-).

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  1. Giving space to each other : Yes, you love each other but you are an independent personalities. Mature love understands that everyone needs space and giving each other that most required space surely helps in strengthening the bond.

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  1. Realizing what “Love” actually means : Being away from love of life results in either being more demanding, cranky, irritating and frustrating or being more mature, understanding and tolerant. You realize what is most important for you, value of time being together and how to make it work in different situations.

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  1. Getting lost in each other’s arms for those few real moments : Finally when lovebirds see each other, forgetting world seems better option. You feel like that tight hug was the only thing you were longing for and that smile on his/her face was the only thing you were dying for. Life suddenly seems blissful and the mirror suddenly shows the “complete” YOU :-).

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Your thoughts??? 🙂

 

 

I’m an addiction to avoid…

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Remember me while morning coffee
Relax with me while evening wine
But remember….
I am an addiction to avoid

Feel my love in tender moonlight
touch my soul in delicate sunlight
But remember….
I am an addiction to avoid

Experience the mountain peaks with me
Dive deep with me in green sea
But remember….
I am an addiction to avoid

Hold my hand tight while walking
Kiss my forehead gently while laughing
But remember….
I am an addiction to avoid

Sit with me in silence
Sing with me on stage
But remember….
I am an addiction to avoid

Be mine or make me yours
Love me or hate me
But remember….
I am an addiction to avoid

Live with me or without me
You will never be able to forget me
Because…
I am an addiction to avoid

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